If one woman is not enough for you, one hundred women will not be enough for you. Solomon had 300 wives and 700 concubines yet he wanted Queen Sheba. The problem is not your woman. The problem is you. You can look for a thousand and one reasons to justify your philandering ways, but the truth is that you're sick and you need help.

The primary essence of a relationship is not sex. It is companionship. Being with a person who completes you; with whom you can be vulnerable, open about your feelings, share your dreams, aspirations and pains, get encouragement and support...that's a proper relationship and the essence of being marriage.

It is an error for sex to be the primary attraction. There are 24 hours in a day. Let's say you spend 3 hours having sex – based on say you no get work – which is highly unlikely – what will you spend the remaining 21 hours doing?

Dating or being married to a person who you can't talk with and play with is one of the most foolish mistakes you can make in your short time on earth.